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Tales from the tide

Some moments are nice, some are
nicer, some are even worth writing
about.  - Charles Bukowski

Let me take you through the journey of the ship life, this whole blog, and the book which is maybe coming, is straight forward story about the ship life. I will reveal you the characters within the crew, events, strata of people, everyday life and illuminate a some of the personal and social disorders there. Please keep in mind that there is a possibility that you will recognize many in your own environment or the rime of it. 👌👊

Ship environment is sort of compressed, and the pace there is quite different, much faster, and unique.

So, I would say that ship environment is a human laboratory of sorts, you can see its effects on personalities, characters, ganders, races, nationalities, behavior, and disorders expressed. Also, you can see the C H A N G E 👀🙊💣 which usually what we are trying to avoid. But in this environment the change is the only thing to keep you alive. 😊

The crew is near 100 % of time exposed to fantastic highly paid simple jobs, choice for sex, harassment, learning opportunities, time away from family or terrestrial troubles, and find themselves in the environment where they have a choice to go completely nuts with their thoughts, tiredness, sleep deprivation, worries, nostalgia, nepotism businesses, and “brilliant” food offer. 😊

So, let us begin ...

2018th I joined the ships for the Second time, I changed the company and wanted to have less work, more money and to get paid for traveling. Like everyone else I wanted a fairy tale. Well, I did experience a lot, and my journey through the torment at sea started with the first person I met. But! ☝ I really did travel, learned, and got tested a lot!

...stay with me ...

Stuck between a rock and a hard place :)


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